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- Albin Hennequin |
BERNARD CUNNINGHAM, OFM Cap
I loved horses from about 8 years old. I learnt to ride at 14 which included grooming etc. At Primary School I was good at reading and Religion. In secondary School I used to get 80 for history, algebra 12, Latin 45. During this time I had friends I would organise playing football in the holidays. Swimming every day in summer. I failed form 2 twice. I can't recall being helped in certain areas nor praised for my good points. I suppose I was depressed when I failed twice. I think the school considered me a lost cause. My parents always supported me. I started work at the supermarket at 15. That job lasted me nine years. I would work hard there, many hours for nothing. I had a fierce determination to keep the job. This was instilled in me by my parents. When I was twenty my parents returned to Melbourne. I stayed on in Bendigo because of my job, friends, etc. I took up running at 18 and improved each year to run a marathon eventually. I lived at many places. Finally getting a whole house to myself- Mum and Dad helping with the deposit.
The relationship with the girlfriend changed. In 1977 I remember standing in my backyard thinking I will become a monk or something. During this time I had the house to myself and would pray out loud a lot! In 1978 I sold my car as I could not afford it with the house payments. I knew I was on the road to a new life and would not turn back. I was involved in the parish: reader, singer, counter, Legion of Mary. I answered a Capuchin Vocation advertisement in the Advocate. I visited many Orders but found them dry and bookish. I visited the Capuchins in Melbourne. I found them prayerful, mysterious but inviting, friendly. So I procrastinated for a time only, I took the plunge... I was accepted and am still here today. I indeed have been fortunate. |